5 Blowjob Suggestions

Hey everyone! I've posted this one before but wasn't sure if everyone had a chance to see it.... Let me know your thoughts. :)

I was speaking to a group of my girlfriends the other night and the topic of blow jobs came up. I was surprised to find out that, being a girl who likes that kind of thing, I was in the minority. Well, I guess I wasn’t surprised, exactly. For some reason, being a woman who likes sex and practically everything to do with it, it seems I’m often in the minority in this regard. One girlfriend said her husband routinely jokes that there’s something in wedding cake that makes women suddenly allergic to this oral act. Poor bastard.

In my humble opinion, I think these women are looking upon this in entirely the wrong way. Here are five suggestions.

1. Change your ‘tude. I don’t know what goes on in your bedroom. My research is completely unscientific. (cf. Me at the club after two glasses of wine and two shots of SoCo, ‘Yeah, I like giving head. Don’t you?’) But I get this feeling that when it’s time for some oral attention, there are women who go down with a ‘let’s get this over with’ kind of attitude. If you attacked a fudge sundae in this manner, even eating ice cream would seem a chore. Stop thinking of it as the last thing on your ‘to do’ list today. Realize it for the beautiful, sexy gift that it is.
2. Slow Down. Take your time. Think about what you’re doing and the pleasure it’s going to bring. Don’t just suck his limp thing into your mouth, pump it until it’s hard and then keep going until he spews (there is a time for that, mind you, but that’s another column). Cuddle first. Be sexy. Whisper in his ear about what you’re going to do to him, all while you press your body against his. Make him hard without directly touching his cock and then head south of the border. Much more fun for all involved.
3. Listen up. And while you’re slowing down, open your ears. Listen to the way he groans the first time you slide his sensitive cock head between your lips. What sounds does he make when you swirl your tongue around the head? Draw your tongue from the base to the head of his shaft? Push the length of his dick into your mouth? Use your mouth and your hand at the same time? Take note of all of his reactions. Learn what he likes and then file it away for future use.
4. Realize control. If you are, or have previously been, the kind of girl who doesn’t like to give head but now (thanks to my wonderful wisdom) you’re reconsidering, let me recommend starting off with your man lying down and you either kneeling between his legs or to his side. This is a position that allows you more control of what you do with his cock. If he’s one of those guys who likes to grab the back of your head (again, there is a time for that – another column), then suggest he lay off that move for now. You may surprise him. Because this is the most important point of all. I don’t think enough women realize or appreciate that when you have a man’s cock in your mouth, you are at the epicentre of his entire world. He is completely focused on every little thing you do. While you’re taking your time and listening to his reactions, understand that you have complete control over his pleasure. Even a girl with a rather significant submissive bent like I have can appreciate the aphrodisiac it is to wield a guy’s orgasm in her mouth, ready to give or not give it with the flick of her tongue.  
5. Talk it out. I’m a huge fan of the postgame wrap-up. Take time afterwards to talk it out, see what he liked and what you could skip the next time. Every guy is different and what worked on your last guy may not be your current man’s bag, baby (Speaking of your man’s bag, don’t neglect the balls! Cup them, tickle them, massage them. That probably deserved it’s own separate entry, didn’t it?).

So give it some thought. And if it works out for you, tell your man Kyoko Church says you’re welcome.